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For so many gay couples, trans-racial adoption is the best fit. If considering trans-racial adoption, there are many benefits and situations that should be discussed. We are a gay interracial couple — black and white — raising our two boys, black, with our mixed-race daughter, who looks white than anything else. Thus, I prefer to raise our boys to also identify with being black.

We will let our daughter decide what identity best fits her as she gets older.

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Regardless if its black parents adopting white kids or white parents adopting interracial kids, families like ours typically garner lots of intention when in public. Since our mixed-race daughter looks white, she and I often get double takes everywhere we go. Our first foster-to-adopt son he has since been placed back with his birth mom was white.

He and I also received stares gay we went. My white husband, Paul, receives similar double takes and stares, perhaps more, when he is in public with our black boys. Either way, gay try to protect our children from such approaches by just removing ourselves from the situation. Some people might argue that black people place too much importance on hair and we should dial it back a bit.

However, some parents understand that their children are being judged on how they are groomed. Kids from gay families have the right to go to schools gay are safe and free from annoyance and bias. Gay parents should avoid schools that choose not to combat unfairness based on race, sexual orientation, and gender identity because same-sex families, like other families, have the same right to be accepted and participate on an equivalent basis.

If it includes the latter, then that school is probably not the right fit for your family. Finally, set-up meetings with the teachers and faculty of the interracial school to determine if it has the following:. If you live in Philly, check them out. Likewise, my children will consistently be reminded of this when asked about their birth parents and struggle to give a proper answer.

In reality, most of them have made a painful, but loving, choice. Despite the perception that most birth moms are irresponsible teenagers, many are young single moms who already have children, and who face economic pressure to place their child. As two gay men who desperately wanted children but never imagined it possible, we are the benefactors of such pain.

When you hold an infant in your arms you are making a choice to love unconditionally and in total defiance of any stereotypes and existing prejudices. Gay trans-racial families are very important examples of the redefined meaning of gay in a progressive society. Your email address will not be published. March 16, AdoptionFoster CareInterracialprivate adoption.

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