Demiboy gay a thing

So what's the general agreed upon definition for demiboy and demigirl? I ask because occasionally I see a "spat" on what the "true" definition is This is a topic that really interests me I'm a cis female but demiboy just fits so well and I feel comfortable with it. I understand the anger there 'cause I'm not really sure myself why those terms were chosen for a cis thing who identifies with some aspects of non-bio gender.

Why must the terms include slurs? At first I felt really guilty, especially for using a slur term to describe myself altho I'm not aware of any good alternatives. If people think I'm just a fetishist or whatever the hell, I don't really care, they just don't get it. Not all trans people get a sex change.

That doesn't make them fake, you know? I couldn't disagree more! To me, demiboy is any non-MAAB person who still identifies with some aspects of being male. And vice-versa with demigirl. That's my own personal definition. BUT what's most important to me is that demiboy can gender-identify any way they want without being expected to "change" or "commit," whether that's in the form of a sex change, acting a certain way, etc.

For example, I dress girly because I enjoy it, but would be offended if someone said I'm not a demiboy because I dress girly. There are lots of bio gay drag queens of all sexualities, obvs. Although the identity is new, the reality of the girlfag predates contemporary notions of flexible gender by at least centuries.

We have no way of knowing how many other women fit into this specialized niche of gender and orientation, as only the famous few have come down to us via the written word. She might consume yaoia form of Japanese hentai comic in which two beautiful boys become lovers. She might or might not present as masculine-of-center.

What Does It Mean To Be Demigirl or Demiboy?

Kumo- While some people say they are "a gay man in a female body" and are really doing that because they ultimately wish that the gay person was hetero and they're trying to ingratiate themselves in some way It isn't always true. I'm AFAB. I identify as genderqueer because I'm not transitioning, but that doesn't mean my internal feelings and experience of life aren't those of the opposite sex The fact that I am only attracted to males made my understanding of being trans even more complicated because I thought that girls who feel like boys are really just super butch lesbians.

However I could have sex with a guy as a guy. Given that bottom surgery transitioning as an FtM is less than satisfactory, especially looking at being sexually functional, what would be the point in going through that process to ultimately make my life worse and still not be able to meet my needs?